No closure to be found there

Dealing with death and other unceremonious endings

I wish I had delegated September, it was so exhausting!

When one month of the year has you in a death grip of forced interactions aka kids parties. Can I delegate September next year? It's so exhausting!

Don’t worry, you’ll be a great mother

6 years later, I'm still trying to find a workable balance as a mom. It's not getting any easier, but I'm getting better at not being so hard on myself.

300 books in the trash: my rejection of patriarchal love

Garbage in, garbage out. When you realize that your reading material has been low key setting you up for heartbreak and failure.

Blogging for Beginners: Lessons from the 1st year

1 year on, I’ve made my fair share of rookie mistakes along the way and have had to use google to fix most of them. With the internet full of free advice from well-meaning people, I thought I would add my 2 cents worth.

Things to leave in 2015: half-assed parenting

Co-parenting with an ex is not easy. We’re human and likely to stuff things up every so often. However, honouring or not honouring responsibilities is what separates fathers from sperm donors, and mothers from incubators. It's 2016. We need to do better.

What I Wish You Knew About… Being In An Abusive Relationship

I never thought it would be me. For the most part, finding myself a part of that kind of screwed up statistic was devastating. The ‘sisters with blisters’ club is not one you voluntarily sign up for. Abuse is for others, I used to think. Until it was for me.